Did you know your husband is often scolded by his boss?
Did you know that your husband can often get insults out there?
Did you know that maybe your husband risked his life for you and your children?
Did you know that your husband can often contain hunger so he can return home with money?
Before you get mad at him…
First count how many millions of drops of sweat comes out of his body.
Before you get mad at him…
Look closely in the eyes, maybe without you realizing those eyes have shed many tears to see you smiling.
If to this day you haven’t been able to fulfill all your wishes, it’s just because of the circumstances.
There’s no head of the family who doesn’t want to see his family happy.
Before you get mad at him, watch and reflect on what your husband has done.
How her husband has worked to meet the needs of his family.
Some parents aren’t good at telling their kids about their pain, they swallow it themselves.
He doesn’t want his wife to know how much he is fighting… He just wants his wife to be proud of him, his work…

Please before you marry that your heartthrob, make sure you know his or her character very well. Some people may be approaching you because of the benefit that they may get from you, after gaining the benefit they will stab you at the back. Marriage is not a child’s play so be careful with people you befriend

Any relationship that is established with lies will never last. Always try to be whom you are. There’s no need to form what you are not. You don’t have any reason why you should lie, it’s better to refuse the relationship before it starts than to believe that you are in a relationship only for you to find out that everything is all a lie. Don’t be deceived, rather be wise.

It saddens me to see young girls of now, living in a guys house for weeks even months.The sad thing is that she will be calling the guy my husband when he has not paid your dowry. Ladies please learn how to respect yourself to avoid the story that touches the heart. That you are living in that guy’s house doesn’t mean that he will marry you. That you are calling his mother”Mom” doesn’t prevent him from kicking you out of his house one day.So ladies please respect yourself. Reserve some dignity for yourself and stop giving guys the privilege to trample on your self esteem.You worth more than you that.Guys like girls that they don’t get easily because it arouses the desire to conquer in men. Please ladies don’t give the guy that opportunity to break your heart. That you have sex with him,cooks for him and do everything for him doesn’t guarantee that he will love you or even marry you rather he will be seeing you as a good for nothing.Be who you are and respect yourself so that better person that will cherish you and love you will come.

Don’t abuse your partner physically or emotionally.Stop any form of abuse because it can lead to depression or death. A woman was abused by her husband almost every day, the husband will always tell her that she’s a failure and that he doesn’t love her. At a point, she developed depression which her husband was oblivious to. One morning,they have a heated argument and she drove away.She had an accident and died on the spot. When her husband was notified,he was shocked because he never knew that she will die. After two weeks,her doctor called her husband to come to his office. He was petrified when the doctor told him that his wife was suffering from depression. The doctor showed him the reports and tests carried on his wife. He was crying non stop at the doctor’s office because the doctor told him that his wife made him swear that he will never tell him that she has depression. So he has been blaming himself since then that he’s the cause of her death. Don’t wait until your partner dies before you start showing that you cared. Stop any form of abuse it is very harmful to your relationship. God bless you

Before your marriage becomes successful, there are certain things you and your spouse must adhere to which includes

1)Respect-Respect each other’s differences and don’t look down on your spouse, always respect their opinion and choices, career and so on

2)Submission-The wife especially should be submissive, don’t rub shoulder with your husband.Always be submissive to your husband.

3)Appreciation-Learn to appreciate your partner almost all the time and not once in a blue moon.If you appreciate your partner regularly, they will be doing things that will make you happy. So learn to appreciate any of their efforts no matter how small it is.

4)Sex- Try new healthy sex positions and styles with your spouse. Sex helps to boost love and doing it with your partner can be very interesting

5)Don’t involve third party- Third party involvement have destroyed many marriages.Settle things amicably between the two of you as soon as possible, don’t involve your family and friends except if it is a life threatening issue. If it’s not, avoid involving third party and settle things quietly.

6)Let your partner’s happiness be your number one priority- Some couples after getting married, will neglect their partner and focus on career which is very bad for your relationship.Develop your career but try and make your partner happy. Have you noticed that when your partner is happy, you will be very happy and peaceful even when doing a difficult task.But when your partner is not happy, you will not be fully focused.You will be unhappy and finds everything uncomfortable, but if you remember the smile of your spouse, you will even unconsciously smile.

7)Trust-Don’t be suspicious of your partner over any little mistake.Learn to trust your spouse unconditionally.

8)Give gift to your spouse- Learn to give your spouse something simple yet special. It can either be flowers, clothes, watching a movie together, cooking their favorite food etc. It makes your spouse feel loved.

Finally, always be yourself and stop comparing your spouse with another person.Be good to your spouse and don’t do things that can cross the line. May God bless every marriage in Jesus name

Many things can help make your marriage interesting.When you continue with the old stuff and style you will feel bored. Below are the things that can make your partner to fall head over heels in love with you all the time.

1) Learn to overlook some certain mistakes. You must not comment over everything. If you want peace to reign, ignore some things but if that mistake requires your attention, correct with love and not like a boss to his subordinate.

2) Give each other space-Too much sticking together can be boring. Always allow your spouse to have some privacy and space for themselves.

3) Speak your partner’s love language-Always learn what moves your partner,it can either be word of praise, physical touch,or act of service. Always do it more often so that your partner will always be happy that you appreciate their little effort.

4)Sex-It have been proven that sex helps boost the chemistry between couples. Respect each other’s opinion when it comes to sex. Try to satisfy your spouse sexually and learn to keep up to your partner’s pace. Always try and talk about how awesome their performance are,it helps to build their self esteem.

5) Once in a while, take a vacation with only the two of you without your children. Try to rekindle the love as when you first met. Bringing children can be a distraction from the original plan. Just the two of you,go out of town and play together without worrying about work, chores or children and cuddle each other while recalling the things you two have been through and renew the vow.

Finally, don’t do things that can cross your spouse bottom line, always learn how to relent when an argument is getting out of hand. May God bless every marriage in Jesus name

Marriage can be likened to a journey that presents many surprises-some surprises are pleasant while others are painful or bitter.Unforseen surprise can present unexpected obstacles, some of which may seem too great to be overcome. Even at that, so many people make this wonderful journey successfully and happily with only minor troubles and challenges. What do you think that can make marriage to be successful and enjoyable?

Below are tips that can help you to be happy and fulfilled and they’re:

1)Think before you speak-Couples may always argue over any little issue. Always wait before responding to something that has made you angry. Once emotions are so high, stop discussing any issue that can easily lead to argument.

2) Give your marriage more time- most people spend huge amount of money, time and effort on their hobbies but when a marriage makes them to feel bad, some will throw up their hands and decide that it’s useless to try anymore. Read books on marriage, conflicts resolution and communication will help your marriage.

3) Give your spouse the respect they deserve- Have you heard the expression”familiarity breeds contempt?” The bitter truth is that people tend to treat their spouses worse than they treat strangers. Retrain yourself to give your spouse the utmost respect.

4) Compliment your partner at least once every day- When you praises your partner over any little effort, they will strive to do more in order to receive more compliments from you.

5)Work hard with your partner to create financial security- One of the merits of marriage is because it gives room for joint economic venture. As your financial security builds up, it be one of the things that let you feel good about each other and the world.

6) Don’t deprive your spouse their right over your body-Sex plays a crucial role in marriage. So don’t refuse your spouse except when you are praying and fasting and after that come together so that the devil will not come in due to the gap.

6) Be faithful-Cheating have killed so many marriages. So be faithful to your spouse.

7) Avoid third party-Learn to communicate effectively with your spouse. If you have conflicts, try and resolve it without involving third party.Third party can give some advice and opinions which may be detrimental to your marriage. Learn to forgive each other without involving any other person.

Finally, always keep each other informed about activities you are engaged in, including your work days and what you do at home. Also, learn to give your spouse a treat occasionally. Just do things your spouse likes without being asked, it can be a place your spouse likes to go or maybe a favorite food. Be guided by the word of God and pray without season. May God bless every marriage in Jesus name.

Parenting is the process of raising children and providing for them protection,care, and the support they need in order to grow and develop into an outstanding adult. Many parents don’t get it right when it comes to parenting. Some people due to the nature of their jobs will leave their children at the mercy of the nanny or house help which can affect the development of the children in one way or the other. Parents listen,no one can take care of your children like you always do. Never. So believe me that some parents are either too lazy to take care of their children or too busy to do so. The Bible says”train up a child in the way that he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it”(proverb 22:6) If you did not play your role well as a parent, you have failed in everything.The essence of all your hard work and effort is to take care of your children,if by the end of the day you find out that you have neglected the most important thing which is to guide your children and inculcate in them the right principles of life because of your being too busy, you will regret it. At that time you cannot reverse the hand of time in order to do so. If you train your children well as a good parent, you will be very happy and proud of them everywhere you go, but if you did not, they will be your biggest regret in life. Make your children your priority and train them in the fear of God. Good parenting involves a great deal of consistency and routine, which gives children a sense of control. May God bless every parent out there trying their best.

How to make your marriage work

Marriage becomes very very interesting and sweet when couples knows how to build a happy marriage. What’s the use of marriage if the relationship between the couples are like lion and deer in every angle. For every marriage to work, all hands must be on deck so that the home will be sweet and lovely.High rate of divorce can be reduced if couples can sit down and talk about their differences and how to overcome it. The joy of every marriage is that after the hustle for the day either in the office or business, you will come back in a comfortable and sweet home which washes away all the troubles of the day. The home is a place of refuge during storms and twists of life. If you are facing storm even in your own marriage/home,then you are likely to be frustrated for life if the storm is not resolved amicably.

There are things that needs to be considered for every marriage to work which includes
1)Understanding : Always try to understand your partner.Understand that your partner has strength and weakness and when you understand your partner’s weakness and how to cope with it,then you can easily enjoy your marriage to the fullest.

2) Trust: Learn to trust your partner unconditionally.Avoid doubt because it can lead to disaster if not stopped.

3) Effective communication: Always voice out what you don’t like or what you are uncomfortable with. Don’t keep it to yourself. Any behavior or words which your partner is doing or words your partner is using that you don’t like, kindly communicate it with him or her.

4)Word of God: Always use the word of God continually. Let it be in your mouth daily.Study it diligently, it will help you know the things that you are expected to do as a husband or as a wife. It will be your guide on how you train your children. When you are serious in knowing what God expects from your marriage then some certain things will no longer be an issue in your marriage.

5) Love: When love is in a marriage, you will feel it even if you are blind, you will know.Bible says that love covers all things.When couples are in love, you as an outsider will feel it, the love will make them grow stronger to overcome all problem together.Learn to love your husband or wife as you first did before you decided to tie the knot. Children born in a family where love reigns are perfect in everything.

6) Sexual intimacy: Don’t use sex as a weapon against your partner.Any conflicts between couples can be resolved during the night. Don’t deny your partner his or her right over your body and don’t always give gap too much except that you are fasting and after that, you can come together so that the devil will not come in between you. Be positive about sex by telling your partner how awesome his or her performance is. Try new positions with him that can make him or her to fall head over heels in love with you again and again.

Finally, always avoid doing what you know that will irritate your partner which may lead to serious problem. Some people always like to do the opposite of what their partner wants them to do.Learn to love and respect your partner because respect is reciprocal. Learn to appreciate your partner over any little thing or help he or she renders,it makes he or she to feel loved. Give your partner undivided attention.If you have children, attend to them but make sure that when your partner needs you, you will give him or her hundred percent attention.Alwys surprise your partner by giving them gift no matter how little it is.Be proud of your partner and make him or her to know that he or she means the whole world to you. May God bless every marriage in Jesus name amen