It is one thing to get married and its another thing to maintain your marriage.Some people are so anxious to get married but once they get married, they will neglect their responsibilities and shift everything to their spouse which is totally WRONG.Some men will leave their responsibilities to their wives and will be living as if they are still single.The woman will pay for the children school fees, provide money for food and still cook it,serve it to the husband and still satisfy his sexual needs, wake up to prepare for breakfast and lunch for the family and still go to work.Its an error for a man to leave his duties as a husband and father to his wife.U don’t know that when you leave everything for your wife to cater, all your prestige as a man in the family is gone.Ur children will no longer value you and your wife will be the one the children will be looking up to for everything.When they grow up, they will only have their mother in their eyes and you will be saying that your wife use juju to tie them but it’s not.Its because you have failed to play your role as a good father.U value other people’s affairs more than your family it’s also wrong.Oga how many times did you check your children’s books to see how they are performing in school?How many times did you put them to sleep and accompany them to do their homework? How many times did you play with them just for fun? Remember you will give account of those children to God on the last day.
Also you as a woman, u will leave your responsibility for your husband to shoulder and allow your husband who might have passed through hell in his place of work or shop instead of coming back home to rest,he will meet you lazing about without cooking food.He will still drag his tired body into the kitchen to prepare dinner for you and the kids, and help run the bath for you 😳 Ehhhhh madam your shame dey shame me.He will still wake up early to prepare breakfast and take the kids to school before going to work, my sister u are totally wrong.U leave all household chores for your husband and maid and tomorrow you will be telling us that your husband cheat on you with your house maid ☹️. My sister u need to change for the better before u use your hand drag your husband away.
I’m not saying that when a man cannot meet up with some living expenses,his wife cannot assist.Ur wife can assist but let it be once in a while and also husband can help his wife occasionally but don’t see it as his responsibility to be cooking for you all the time except he is doing it willingly.
Finally, you need to play your roles well as a husband and father so that you will be able to reap good results in the end.U as a woman should also do the same for the smooth managing of the family and may God bless everyone doing their best for their family to live well in Jesus mighty name I pray. Amen.
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