Rules for a successful marriage

Before your marriage becomes successful, there are certain things you and your spouse must adhere to which includes

1)Respect-Respect each other’s differences and don’t look down on your spouse, always respect their opinion and choices, career and so on

2)Submission-The wife especially should be submissive, don’t rub shoulder with your husband.Always be submissive to your husband.

3)Appreciation-Learn to appreciate your partner almost all the time and not once in a blue moon.If you appreciate your partner regularly, they will be doing things that will make you happy. So learn to appreciate any of their efforts no matter how small it is.

4)Sex- Try new healthy sex positions and styles with your spouse. Sex helps to boost love and doing it with your partner can be very interesting

5)Don’t involve third party- Third party involvement have destroyed many marriages.Settle things amicably between the two of you as soon as possible, don’t involve your family and friends except if it is a life threatening issue. If it’s not, avoid involving third party and settle things quietly.

6)Let your partner’s happiness be your number one priority- Some couples after getting married, will neglect their partner and focus on career which is very bad for your relationship.Develop your career but try and make your partner happy. Have you noticed that when your partner is happy, you will be very happy and peaceful even when doing a difficult task.But when your partner is not happy, you will not be fully focused.You will be unhappy and finds everything uncomfortable, but if you remember the smile of your spouse, you will even unconsciously smile.

7)Trust-Don’t be suspicious of your partner over any little mistake.Learn to trust your spouse unconditionally.

8)Give gift to your spouse- Learn to give your spouse something simple yet special. It can either be flowers, clothes, watching a movie together, cooking their favorite food etc. It makes your spouse feel loved.

Finally, always be yourself and stop comparing your spouse with another person.Be good to your spouse and don’t do things that can cross the line. May God bless every marriage in Jesus name