Some people don’t know what they want in life. They lack focus, they lack vision and they also lack the ability to think rationally. If you marry such a person, you are bound to be frustrated for life. That’s why young people are advised to check out the person they want to marry. Know if you can tolerate his or her personality. Check out for some warning signs being displayed by the person you are dating. For example, if the person that you are about to marry is showing signs of domestic violence, know that he or she is violent in nature and think twice whether you can cope with it or not, if you can then proceed but if not, then call off the relationship. It is better to have a broken relationship than a broken marriage. Don’t rush to marry because every other person is getting married but marry because you are ready and matured to take responsibility of everything you see in it. Above all things, communicate often with your partner and talk things through. Don’t keep it alone or die in silence voice it out and let your partner know what you are expecting from him or her. Finally be prayerful and seek God for more grace to excel.